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Spanking After a Hot Shower = Not Good!

For the first time in our entire relationship I experienced a spanking after a hot shower and boy oh boy I didn't like it one bit! Now I have a very high pain tolerance so of course I didn't think nothing of it and thought to myself " I can take this and no biggie" , again I was VERY WRONG!!! TX hardly ever catches me off guard but he did yesterday. We had a really good morning together and ate breakfast, talked etc. TX asked me to get ready because we were needing to leave soon to get our errands done because we were pressed for time due to the fact that we were going to be meeting our DD friends from the ADDS Chat room for dinner. So the obedient "Angel" that I am went to take a shower and get ready :) I come out of the shower into our bedroom and TX was there waiting for me and told me I was going to get the spanking I earned from the night before. The first thought in my mind was "I just took a hot shower" but I have learned not to argue or try to talk TX out of spanking me because it just makes the punishment all the worse. So I automatically said "Yes Sir" and he told me to make myself comfortable! When TX tells me to make myself comfortable meaning I am allowed to choose the spanking position he is going to spank me in this really means I won't be comfortable for long!


So the position I chose was something similar to the picture above because for the most part it's comfortable until the spanking starts lol. There are times where I wish TX wouldn't give me a choice on what position I am to get punished me but after many talks at our DD sit downs his view is he makes the decisions on how he wants to punish me so I guess in some ways I get that but it doesn't mean I don't like it. This spanking HURT A LOT and usually I keep very still with spankings but not this one! He started out with leather (which is my favorite) and the sting building up was quick and I was all over the darn bed! TX usually never has to hold me down in any kind of way but with this spanking he did have to place his hand on the small of my back. I don't like when I lose control during any type of spanking and what I mean by losing control is moving to the point where he has to hold me down in some way , crying (makes me feel to vulnerable) or letting him know by my actions that I am not liking the spanking. I am not naturally submissive and TX and I are both OK with this in our relationship. He ended up using the leather strap, bath brush, white lightening and evil wooden spoon. By the time all was said and done I was very sore , sorry that I broke the rules the day before and in tears! I think that TX now has a new trick to make sure I feel spanked and punished because that is one complaint I have been having lately is just not really feeling punished or spanked enough. Having a high pain tolerance really is hard not only on me but also on TX because he has a very hard time gauging if I have had enough! The spanking after a hot shower does the trick for me or at least it did this time ;)

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